Problem with today's relationship is
that they fail to take into account the fact that relations are like
Mangoes in that they begin with a total sourness but in takes great
patience and two sided faith to reach a state of sweetness. Most
people simply blame the initial sourness onto their partners not
knowing its a state of chaos inherent to every other thing in this
universe.
It may first seem to be only romantic
relations. In fact, this extends to other type of relations as well.
This however may not mean those relations acquired out of birth like
one with your parents or siblings. This means all those relations
where we have independence of choosing partners with whom to have
specific relation. It may mean a friend, a pet animal and even your
profession where you are totally independent to choose with whom you
want to pursue relationship with.
People successful in their relations
all must have had horrific beginnings, a state of utter uncertainty.
But, the continued stress for grooming it is all what is needed
rather than total neglect or judging at first look.